Cinco De Mayo 🎉🎉

A long awaited Sunday Session finally comes to fruition as we decide to go Mexican theme to celebrate Cinco de Mayo! Mike prepares guacamole and salsa verde, Mandy slow cooks pulled chicken, Heather spoils us with black bean dip and pico de gallo, and I contribute mexican style street corn. The night also would not be complete without Mike’s marvelous margaritas – Don Julio or Patrón?

Our eyes are literally feasting on all of the tasty colours of this spread as we get our hands right into the mix! One of the most satisfying pleasures about eating with your hands is that instant connection you get by touching your food and guiding it to your mouth. It’s also more fun when you can engage with your meal and create do it yourself tacos while experimenting with different versions of toppings. The key to a successful mexican night is always fresh herbs and abundance of lime juice. We harvest fresh cilantro from the back garden for the salsa, garnishing and guacamole. Every one has opted for different tortillas – whole wheat, corn, and flour, which were then lightly heated on the pan with some olive oil.

A brief history on elotes – corn on the cob, this humble crop was first domesticated in Honduras in the 6600BC and quickly became ubiquitous throughout Mexico. Due to it’s affordability, street vendors would boil or roast them serving on a stick or just the husk as a handle – which easily became a beloved and popular street snack, by sprinkling seasoning or slathering sauce on top. I prepared my corn first by simmering in a boiling pot and transferred them over to the grill to obtain that perfect charred exterior – that magically highlights these golden cones. This technique ensures the corn stays juicy, retaining its sweetness without drying out on the barbecue. Remember to rotate the cobs so they get even colouring all around. I substituted cotija cheese with parmesan, and no one even noticed the difference, as the corn was devoured within seconds. There is absolutely no way to eat this messy corn on the cob gracefully, so prepare for a fiesta in your mouth! A quick squeeze of lime is the secret to elevating this crowd pleaser to the next level.

I regretfully postpone churros for another night as I conserve my energy for conducting the evening smudge. With the arrival of summer and visitors to Bermuda, there seems to be less and less time for decompressing and disconnecting with the world. While trying to remain sociable and involved, it can sometimes start to take a toll on me, and taking a few steps back to re-center and find balance once again is so important. Tonight, we do a meditation on accepting the present moment, letting go of the clutter and noise that distracts us, and just sitting still for a few minutes allowing our minds to settle and connect inwards, with our spiritual realm.

I introduce a new “grounding” or “earthing” exercise with the group tonight. What happens to the human body when we walk Barefoot on Earth? After 20 minutes of this natural grounding exercise, it has shown to improve facial circulation. Place your bare feet directly on the earth, what sensations do you feel? When we remove barriers that keep us from being in complete contact with nature, that keep us from the natural healing powers of our planet, we can begin to recharge and re-establish that connection with our roots. No socks, no shoes – as the rubber on the soles are good insulators from electrical conduction, causing us to disconnect with our world. The Earth carries negative ions which are electron rich, and can help transfer antioxidants to us to destroy free radicals. Allow your feet to absorb the negative electrons. This grounding energy flows through your physical body and helps to align your body with your surroundings, vibrating at the same potential as the earth. This simple connection can enhance our health and provide feelings of well-being. We take 10 mins to walk around the hammock outside, gently placing our feet on the grass and feel the coldness, dampness, and the blades between our toes. Deep breathing and converting new oxygen for our cells at the same time is also beneficial. Try closing your eyes, do your sensations alter? Explore clockwise and counterclockwise paths. Potential treatments of this earthing technique is beneficial against chronic stress, reduce inflammation, relieve pain, improve sleep, and help with anxiety. How does this work? When grounded – the stress hormone cortisol normalize, helping to control blood sugar levels, regular metabolism, and reduced inflammation.

To conclude tonight’s ceremony, I want to speak about the lotus flower. It is a sacred symbol of the divine in many spiritual traditions and it represents purity and non-attachment. It also represents the heart, not the physical heart, but the spiritual heart – heart opening. The lotus is the perfect reflection of new beginnings, growth, and enlightenment. Closed lotus has infinite potential, waiting to unfold and blossom. Are you ready for the best version of yourself? Buddhist compare the opening of the lotus flower petals to the unfolding of the divine within you. Rooted in muddy waters at the very bottom of a pond, emerging from a dark murky place, through mud it rises growing tall and strong through the water, breaking out the surface every morning, reaching for the sunlight, and finally – blooming in the glow and warmth of the sun. A sign of rebirth, resurrection, and new opportunities.

We now put our hands in the yoga lotus mudra position, which represents your lotus flower. It is an extension of your body and heart and soul that will collects all the positive energy. Bring it down to your heart’s center. Hands in prayer. 2 rounds of deep breaths. namaste.

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Back to the grind – one of the things I’ve really come to appreciate is that when you return from a vacation to Bermuda, it still feels like you’re on vacation, so the blues don’t hit you as hard. No bad days can be had if you’re surrounded by palm trees. I definitely missed Blake, my black beauty, riding on the scooter especially in the summer time is an exhilarating feeling that is like none other. The sense of freedom and just letting go, with the wind racing in your hair is almost therapeutic. In no time, I’m back to my regular routine, staying busy, bettering myself, applying myself, and getting more involved with my community. Whether it’s to meet new friends, support local organizations, or develop my skills, I am out there taking risks and getting my feet wet! To give you to a taste of my weekly schedule:

Mondays: spring league volleyball/tennis clinic @Bernard’s Park
Tuesday: hot vinyasa yoga @Lucky Elephant
Wednesday: running on the railway trial/ legs day @Beast gym/ Harbor Nights
Thursday: salsa class @Docksiders / tennis / running on the beach
Friday: HH @Newstead, Marina Nights @1609, UberVida sunset cruise
Saturday: watch the sunrise, farmer’s market, volunteering walking dogs with Chad, read on the beach, bbq, watch the sunset
Sunday: BJJ @Aries Gym/ brunch, beach volleyball, exploring the island, boating, snorkeling, supper club

…and in between I try to punctuate with reading, practicing guitar, playing piano, painting, going to art galleries, working with Pecha Kucha, aerial silks yoga, meditation, journaling, gardening, meal prep, tan and laundry! People often say there’s “Nothing to do in Bermuda” and I find that very hard to believe. The island offers so many amazing groups and organizations for anyone to participate in:

Obviously the summer time brings with it more activities and events like Rosé Day in the botanical garden, cruises to go see glow worms, horseback riding at sunset, TEDx talk, petting farm, world triathlon, jetskiing, paragliding and even an aerial tour of the island and stunning reefs on a helicopter ride. Another way to stay updated with any sort of event going around Bermuda is to check on the ptix website, where you can purchase tickets for shows, cruises, and parties. Find yourself featured in our local entertainment and social page, Bermynet. The Bermuda Film Festival and Bermuda Fashion Festival were two events I participated in that really surpassed my expectations for this island. Not only were they well executed and large scale, it brought diversity to the stage, evoked interest locally and gave us international appeal. Supporting local artisans and entrepreneurs is another great way to get involved with members of the community and enjoy a discussion regarding their passion and inspiration for their work. Harbor nights is an exciting opportunity to sample different vendors and support small businesses, while relishing in live music and delicious bites. I always go for the Portuguese doughnuts – malasadas, which are made fresh, warm and fluffy to order.

Fortunately, some mates have come visit me from Toronto as well as some optometry folk, so I’ve had the opportunity to show them around the island and attempt to give them some perspective on what life in Bermy is like. My first visitor was Liam, a dear friend from Timmins, Ontario. There was loads of excitement around this trip not only because it was my first time hosting, but also because it was his first encounter with a palm tree face to face! Liam enjoyed cliff diving at Admiralty, renting a scooter, and snorkeling at Clearwater – watching beautiful parrot fish feeding off coral reef. Although his pink sand got confiscated at customs, Liam managed to smuggle some sea glass home to Toronto.

Lisa came next, during Cup Match weekend she learned how Bermudians partied and drank her fair share of rum swizzle. Raft up at Mangrove Bay was one for the books and barely escaping trespassing charges into Ariel Sands was all part of the fun.
Joe Van Cura arrived via cruise ship, though I was off island – his family and him explored Tobacco Bay and Horseshoe beach, and was well rewarded with some of the most scenic views this island has to offer. No single beach is the same here – if you look closely at the details of the sand, pieces of broken coral reef determines the shade of pink we admire.

Another NECO alumni came to visit – Joanne and Jake, adventured around Bermuda in a Twizy! They went golfing at Port Royal, rode jetskis to the shipwreck, toured the Crystal Caves, shared a family naan at Ruby Mury’s and imbibed many frozen dark and stormys while getting their skin kissed by Bermuda sunshine.

Dr. Burtchell is arriving next week for a wedding and hopefully his stay will also surpass his expectations.

Mum is coming in mid-July for a visit while staying at Pillows B&B, can’t wait to have her here to relax and hang out. For the rest of you, guess you’ll be living vicariously through me for now while receiving postcards and seashells. When you’re ready for your next dream vacation, give me a shout and head down to the triangle △

¡Pura Vida!

This is an infectious saying that you will quickly catch on to after just a couple days in Costa Rica. Locals, referred to as “Ticos“, use this phrase for almost everything, which translates to P U R E ♥ L I F E. Not only is it a lifestyle but also a culture, and captures the true essence of being in Santa Teresa. Living an authentic or simple life is emphasized by this phrase, and is use interchangeably as a greeting or response to anything that happens in life – to say that everything is good and everything is cool. The general consensus is a relaxed, carefree and happy attitude. I mean, what is there to stress about? Let’s hit the beach, go surf, sip smoothie or Imperial cerveza, and relax in a hammock. No worries, no fuss, no stress —pura vida (pronounced: poo-rah vee-dah) To Ticos it means being thankful for what they have and not dwelling on the negative while giving a “hang loose” hand sign.

This emotion and perspective becomes so ingrained in me that I’ve sacredly protected it and carried it home with me. Other unintentional habits I’ve noticed since returning home are: I still have the instinct to throw away toilet paper in the trash bin, since I was bombarded with a million signs telling me to do so for the past week, and shutting off the water while I brush my teeth or lather in the shower to conserve and reduce water waste. I am not entirely upset about any of these routines that have stuck with me. Another way to conserve water is to shower with a friend 😉 Our outdoor showers are surrounded by nature and greenery, while after nightly pool dips, a tranquil night shower under the stars and moonlight brings happiness – to be so in touch with mother earth at all times, I’m feeling especially grounded 🙏✨

Hola! another incredible day was spent surfing in the morning with a group of lovely ladies. Our mascota, Hurley the Lion, came to cheer us on as we perfected our skills and took on more challenges on the boards. The growing tides eventually get the best of me as I get wiped out and taken under, tumbling like socks in a washing machine. The effects of this was seen later on in yoga class in downward dog position, where water would randomly start expelling from my nose still. My face says it all as I catch the S W E L L !

For lunch, Becky, Jamie and I are eager to hit up The Bakery as it came highly recommended from everyone as a must do. My eyes are immediately fixated on all the scrumptious looking desserts behind the glass counter: passion fruit cheesecake, strawberry and cream pastry, freshly baked chocolate croissants and pistachio cronuts. I’m definitely saving room for postre later. I order tacos de pescados con cerveza and is served a magnificent and playful platter of food. With little persuasion, I return to The Bakery almost every day before I leave this town for a little bit of indulgence.

The next couple days I hang out with the girls, who are great companions for horseback riding and hiking at the nature reserve – Cabo Blanco. Jamie does a brilliant impression of a monkey howl, which always gets everyone cracking up, and Becky is our designated driver as the three of us squeeze onto a single ATV (and with enough liquid courage, maybe sometimes even four) Cabo Blanco is located at the extreme southern tip of the Nicoya Peninsula, so we can hear the ocean roaring in the distance during our entire hike. Jamie & Becky both have an amazing eye for spotting wildlife on our 4hour long expedition: pelicans, vultures, coati, anteater, iguana, snakes, bats, monkeys, and a deer! Montezuma is always a nice bet afterwards, as we get ceviché and mango smoothies, and support some local artisans who have set up little booths along the main street selling handmade jewellery. I stop to chat with Fermin the rastafarian who’s eager to share his stories on which part of the world his precious stones and gems were discovered. He’s very passionate about his work and tells me he will be going to Switzerland at the end of summer for vacation and to Poland for a BBoy dance competition. We all get some bracelets and souvenirs and head back to Funky Monkey for the much anticipated SUSHI NIGHT!

Horseback riding at sunset was a special treat, Chocolate and I have a romantic stroll together for the next two hours. We tromp along Mal Pais beach front and cliff top for a beautiful view. Jamie and Becky have been riding all their lives and are galloping gracefully while Chocolate is my steady Eeyore ♥

The girls departure is celebrated with a night of dancing at El Carmen – a chill open air restaurant lounge facing beach front. I love the ambience and decor here, perfect for people watching, sharing appetizers and having cocktails in the golden light. At night, the DJ takes on the decks and a dance floor is cleared out for those techno enthusiasts.

My week seems to be winding down now and I’m feeling more mellowed out, spending more time yoga stretching in the pavilion in the early mornings, journaling by the pool, reading and meditating alone. I was beginning to feel a bit overwhelmed with all the group socializing and activities, getting caught up in the excitement and whirlwind of it all. I’m finding a better pace and feel more relaxed when I make time for myself to reflect on my day and my emotions. My yogi has brought up setting an intention for this week which I have been working on – self love & self worth. This trip was really meant for me to find more balance and center myself, focus on me, and know that I deserve everything that I want. I am still learning that h a p p i n e s s is a state of mind, is an awareness and consciousness – and not a destination that you can arrive at. Alina asks us to think of 2 things that we are proud of today – whether it’s that we showed up on the mat, making time for self care, or trying something new and exploring the world more. Anything. She then paints a very vivid scenery while we close our eyes. Imagine – the burning sun sinking lower and lower towards the horizon, while the amber and orangey-red hues reflect and dance across the waters, each wave is bringing this powerful healing and positive energy closer towards us. With our palms open face up resting on our knees, we receive this divine energy that the universe is sending us, and fills our body and soul – nourishing us. Introducing our mantra now:

“I am healthy, I am strong, I am one with all that surrounds me. Love heals me. “

boho beautiful

I am enlightened everyday by the people I meet here, whom exchange knowledge, inspire me and allow me to become more open minded. It is serendipitous that I should encounter Diana aka Dianita who joins me in my dorm. She is a down to earth, charismatic, vibrant and full of life woman. I listening intently to her fearless travels, backpacking adventures and Vipassanā meditation retreat in the Philippines. We easily form a bond. Nacho #2 is another gentle soul that I’ve really had the pleasure speaking to. Originally from Argentina and now residing in Williamsburg, Brooklyn, I’m instantly drawn to his hipster and unassuming character. He introduces me to ecstatic dancing, something that he enjoys doing – which is a community event that welcomes all, where rhythmic music is played and self-expression without judgement occurs. No phones, no talking, no drugs or alcohol. Just a safe space for pure freedom of self and movement. I’m absolutely intrigued by this creative outlet that exists and know that it’s something that I definitely want to try out. The notion of reverting back to our roots, stripping all external distractions, and just to connect fully with yourself or others emotionally, physically and spiritually is such a grand idea. Our stimulating conversation then branches out to his studies in reiki, mate drinking, and book recommendations. I will always remember the kindness in Nacho’s words — that I am on my own journey, and life will reveal itself to me in the right moment, as I sit in awe in his presence of zen-ness.

On my last days, I lay out by the beach and feel extreme gratitude for all my experiences and insights gained. With hope in my heart, I feel that a very large door opened in my life, and that there are so many paths I can take or travel on. I no longer have fear of the future or try to grasp on to my past – what is meant for me will come, and I feel so much acceptance and peace. Traveling solo liberates you, it breaks down barriers and inhibitions, and pushes you out of your comfort zone. Vibrate at your highest potential, always.

Dianita, Sille, Juliann and I discover ourselves in a unexpected union. The four of us go for lunch at Earth Café – a charming spot that serves homemade gelato (pistachio, yum!), beautiful hearty bowls bursting with flavours, carrot cake and power balls, smoothies and coffee. My favourite part is the outdoor space, with globe lights strung across, lined with bench seating and cute vintage pillows, all completely shaded by a huge mango tree. I am so pleased with this revelation, while enjoying my Earth Bowl and sipping on a Kale Boost. I learn that both Sille and Dianita have their own brands. KØVL (Sille): which originates from the Dutch word keuvelen meaning “chatter” — promoting spaces and opportunities for people to connect and integrate ideas and passions. Mirazo (Dianita): is Greek for “I Share” — with a rich background in French, Greek, Serbian, Cameroonian and Spanish, the idea is to incorporate and draw on various cultural inspirations and provide something unique and special for everyone to enjoy. I am blown away by these young and passionate entrepreneurs, feeling truly inspired and supportive of them. Then there’s Juliann, the OG big friendly giant, soft spoken but his chuckles, subtle humor, and genuine smile captured my affection. It was always a good laugh with these guys, whether it was dancing up a sweat at KIKA or moon bathing in the pool all attached to a floatie. I will always remember the full moon that one night, with the light ring beaming down on us and the linear cloud drifting pass creating a yin yang — when the universe gives you signs, you better soak that shit right up 🌙✨

love is love is love .