Staying Present and Being Mindful

A smudging is in order as I dim the lights and invite my guests to find a comfortable spot on the ground for them to sit with a tall spine. Tonight, I speak about setting intentions for the week, discussing what our affirmations are, and what mantras we can work on. Staying present: take a moment to truly quiet the mind and observe all that is around you. I find that I have been struggling with this concept for quite sometime. It seems like nostalgia is a much more amazing place, or that were always thinking about the future and worrying about what’s next. I want to take this opportunity to center ourselves and bring our focus to “the self”. This moment right now is your time. Have gratitude for taking this time out of your day to reflect and just be still with your thoughts and your mind. Often our minds wonder and drift during meditation, which is completely normal, so just acknowledge those thoughts/emotions/feelings and let them drift on like clouds in the sky. Return to the breath. Inhale & exhale. Live more presently. Put down your phones and make a connection with the people around you. Live and breath in your surroundings and everything you take for granted. In this moment, we are all vibrating together at our highest self. We are lifting each other up, and we are also grounding each other down. Feel your body that is contact with the ground, to the earth, returning to the universe. Always return to the breath. Return to the intention you want to set, and quietly repeat it to yourself in your head (2 mins). Now let’s return gently to our physical body.

Body scan: this is an amazing stress reliever and I find to be a great tool for helping me fall asleep. Using a diffuser or deep breathing with essential oils can invoke a calming effect, so please feel free to incorporate these into your practice. This guided meditation will move from your feet to your head and slowly relax each and every body part sequentially. Lay comfortably and fall into deep relaxation. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rkp8R-HlTYk

I once took a yoga & essential oils class where I learned about different plants and their specific benefits. I got to mix my own bottle at the end which comprised of: Coconut Oil base, Frankincense Resin, Lime Peel, Sandalwood, and Roman Chamomile Flower. The primary benefits is to help enhance concentration and sustain focus. The pleasing aroma is musky, spicy, and earthy. Apply to the inside of the wrist or palm and rub together and inhale. There are different types of essential oils designed and graded specifically for topical use, diffuser application, or oral use, so please be aware and be cautious of what type you are using. https://www.saje.com/https://www.muji.us/store/health-beauty/aroma-fragrances.html

The sense of smell is definitely a very strong and powerful sensation that can evoke deep memories but also transcend your mind state and alter your mood. I enjoy using orange/bergamot for invigorating and energizing my mind, lavender/eucalyptus for relaxation and calming effects, and sandalwood/cinnamon bark for soothing and peaceful vibes to keep me grounded.


*note: please be mindful that essential oils can be toxic to cats, as their livers are deficient in enzymes to break down “phenols” which can become harmful. When using a diffuser, the tiny oil droplets can become suspended on their fur, and when they clean themselves they will ingest the substances. The best thing to do is keep open ventilation and air circulation by opening all doors and windows. after our smudging session we open the large doors to allow the smoke out as well for Noodles and Re-Run.

play this for a deep sleep trance state

namasté: in Sanskrit meaning “bowing” “to you”. At the end of our practice we usually bow with our hands together at heart center and say “namasté”, and with this simple word you are expressing that:

My soul honours your soul
I honour the place in you,
where the whole universe resides
The light in me sees and honours the light in you
I honor the light, love, truth, beauty and peace within you,
because it is also within me
In sharing these things we are united
We are the same
We are one

Send love and light always 💕✨

We will now set our intention for this week. I pass along a small piece of paper and pencil for each individual to write down their intention and then fold it up and place it in the abalone shell for burning. This process will seal our intentions and return the ashes to earth. I proceed to cleanse our auras and our dwelling which is sacred and protected now; rid of all negative energy and filled with only positivity.

Asian Night

The proposed themed menu for this glorious day is:

Appetizer: Fresh Viet Summer Rolls

Entree: Chicken Pad Thai

Dessert: Mango & Coconut Icecream (back up dessert: Blueberry Tartlets)

We’ve inducted a new member today, our volleyball teammate Lindsay! She has been recruited as sous chef and takes on the important responsibility of making the sauce for pad thai and blueberry tarts. There are a lot of hands on cooking duties today which makes it fun and engaging. Mike is using his new sushi mat and rice paddle which I gave him. Mandy and Lindsay are learning how to handle rice paper and create their very own summer rolls! I’m in charge of the main course and wish so dearly on a magnificent sunny day like today, to be sipping on a Thai iced tea whilst basking in the sun rays.








with views like this, it’s no wonder Mark Twain said, “You can go to heaven if you want to. I’d rather stay in Bermuda.





In the kitchen we have an orchestrated flow going on, everyone’s got a job and no one is slacking off, not even Blister. Blister a.k.a. Mandy, acquired this childhood nickname from her dad, who noticed that Mandy would always show up after all the works done. No where in sight during prep work, but would arrive just in time to reap the goods, after all the hard works been put in. Hence the very befitting name. There’s a new rule now, if you don’t help cook, you help with the washing, which we all agree is very fair!

Rice Paper tip: flash wet both sides with warm water, this is enough to magically turn the hard paper into a soft doughy texture in a few seconds. work carefully as it can get sticky so don’t get overzealous filling the roll like a burrito. The dipping sauce also plays a vital role in this dish so invest in sauces: fish sauce, hoisin sauce, garlic chilli sauce, lime juice mixed with some crushed peanuts. https://www.allrecipes.com/recipe/24239/vietnamese-fresh-spring-rolls/

“alexa, play Tom Misch !”

Summer rolls are an amazing treat during the hotter seasons, giving us a refreshing and healthy snack alternative. There’s are so many filling options that you can go with, which always makes me so excited to create these. Traditional rolls use poached shrimps, but you can try chicken, pork or grilled tofu! Mike picks fresh herbs from his garden box for our rolls, which really help them sing. We have both basil and mint!


Sushi Maki tip: if you don’t have a sushi mat, you can use a dish towel line with plastic wrap, this works just as well if you’re in a bind, but of course I vote for no plastic! make sure the rice has cooled down or else the heat will distort the shape and integrity of the crunchy nori paper. https://ohmyveggies.com/crave-worthy-vegetarian-sushi-recipes/

Pad Thai tip: STIR STIR STIR! I cannot stress this enough, when boiling the noodles, stir constantly or they will stick to each other and won’t cook evenly, resulting in hard chewy pieces. Substitute chicken for prawns or tofu! https://tastesbetterfromscratch.com/pad-thai/

Dessert station had a bit of a mishap this evening. We couldn’t find the correct coconut cream and when I attempted it on another night, I panicked and froze the coconut cream instead of putting it in the refrigerator. This super easy dessert (I swear) is really tasty and has just the right balance of sweetness, fruitiness, and nuttiness!



Being such professional chefs that we are, we were prepared for any obstacles thrown our way. I had Lindsey on deck mastering the cookie dough for our blueberry cups and then she proceeded to skillfully shape them into the muffin tins. Successfully saving the night! À la mode: oh, and please do be generous with your serving of vanilla icecream. Dust with cinnamon at your desire.

Blueberry Tartlet tip: use fresh, not frozen blueberries, as the frozen berries acquire a tough and chewy skin. if possible, obtain from farmer’s market. choose plump and juicy berries – this will give a naturally sweeter filling. https://www.adashofmegnut.com/mini-blueberry-tarts/

Although the substitute dessert didn’t fit with our today’s theme, it definitely felt right in our tummies!

To conclude our Asian night, I wanted to touch on the fact that I have been giving Mike free virtual Mandarin lessons remotely. We’ve started on basics, like greetings and numbers. I’ve discussed the importance of the five tones, and that one simple phonetic sound, but enunciated with a different tone, could have a whole other meaning. For example: mā = mother and mǎ = horse, you do not want to call your mother a horse!

Ragdoll Pose

In this weeks session, we take an in depth look into our yoga practice. Ragdoll pose or asana, is a basic standing forward bend yoga posture that stretches the lower back. Hinge at the hips and fold over, allowing everything to release – dangle your shoulders, neck, arms, and head. This is a really great stretch and helps reset our bodies and rejuvenates our beings. While giving ourselves an opportunity to fully let go of any tension built up over the day or week, it also permits a rush of blood and fresh oxygen to our minds. Coincidentally, our hosts: Michael & Amanda have two lovely ragdoll cats – Noodles & Re-Reun. They are both super soft but a bit temperamental (cuddling has proved to be difficult at this time) However, it has been a pleasure getting to know their enchanting personalities, likes and quirks.

Mandy and I join forces and attempt a yoga class in the living room. She has been using “Yoga with Adrienne” (https://www.youtube.com/user/yogawithadriene) which I find to be more instructive and perfect for beginners who need more guidance on technique and form. For my practice, I have an absolute affinity for using “Boho Beautiful” (https://www.youtube.com/user/cexercize) led by the amazing Juliana. I am truly in gratitude when it comes to practicing yoga with her – the videos are filmed in the most idyllic and scenic places. Whether it’s on a island beach in Thailand or greeted by a waterfall in the background in Costa Rica, you instantly become transcended to a wonderful world that is stress free and ultimately find your sense of zen. Her channel is based on a more spiritual, mindful and meditative approach. Please check out her incredible website and blog – her lifestyle content is so inspiring. She discusses nomad living, veganism/plant-powered diet, zero-waste and plastic free products, sustainable yoga gear and attire, healthy exercise challenges, charities and notable organizations doing good for our earth! 🌎✨ https://bohobeautiful.life

Re-Run is curious and keeps us company by doing some cat stretches with us.

Meanwhile, Mike has taken it upon himself to nourish us as we are working up an appetite and sweating away. His first attempt on homemade cauliflower and cheddar English muffins is a hit! They are soft and warm and perfectly savory. He also whips up the most amazing melt in your mouth Hollandaise sauce. The tangy and buttery velvet texture make us close our eyes as we devour this delicious meal.

Now that we’ve awakened our joints and muscles, and expanded our stomachs, it’s time to turn to our creative side. I’ve brought over some watercolour paints for today’s activity. Seeing as it is good weather, we set up our brushes and paints in the patio to enjoy the fresh breeze of spring in Bermuda. The theme for today’s art is to create vibrant and exciting animal paintings. Mandy and Mike quickly find suitable animals and are eager to get their brushes and palettes going. Mandy is super immersed in her painting that she accidentally drinks her brush water, mistaken it for her beverage. It is a paint and sip after all!

All the hard work has got us hangry and Mike prepares for us a fragrant and mouth watering dish he acquired from his studies abroad – at culinary boot camp in Chicago. Dinner service includes coconut chicken curry with cilantro and lime rice. Attention to detail is seen in Mike’s cooking – the rice is cooked in chicken broth which allows it to absorb all the flavours, giving it added depth. He also zests the lime and garnishes the top of the dish to give it a powerful punch. Zing!



Noodle sticks out her paw as she wants some food too. She loves to be part of the mix.

Romanticizing Rösti

For our inaugural culinary journey, we’ve decided to get a crack at making smoked salmon potato rösti with the jewels of breakfast – poached eggs. Breakfast is also not breakfast without my specialty avocado roses. Rösti is the Swiss version of hash browns and is the national dish of Switzerland. For those of you who know Marché/Mövenpick know exactly of the delightful crispy, buttery and salty rösti potato pie, garnished simply with a dollop of sour cream and chives. Heavenly.

Rösti tip: use the correct potato = russet! and remember to squeeze all of the water out, so dry it in between dish towels.

Avo Rose tip: pick soft and ripe avocados so that you can slice them very thinly – this will give you many layers to your rose and facilitate the beautiful shape. spread them into a long caterpillar and start turning it round and round from the smaller end. lastly, push down on the avo petals to achieve a blossom!

Poached Egg tip: no matter how fun it is, do not swirl the boiling water and create any sort of typhoon, tornado, or hurricane formations. depending on the level of runniness you prefer, scoop them out carefully and pat them dry. (pro tip: use a separator sieve to discard any water content from egg content if you are feeling obnoxious)

Something exciting happened earlier on the day that prevented me from assuming head chef duties. Although, new shiny kitchen tools seem cool and fun to play with, do not by any cricumstance, shave off the tip of your finger and nail with a peeler!

To end the night off, I conducted our first smudging ceremony. I’ve recently be manifesting my spiritual self and have been practicing meditation and yoga more and more. Smudging is an ancient ritual practiced by the Indigenous peoples of the Americas which involves burning of sacred herbs for spiritual cleansing or blessing. It is also sometimes referred to as an “energy shower” which helps rid of negative energy and invite positive light and vibrations into our mind, body and soul. The burning of dried white sage or palo santo wood which translates to “holy stick” cleanses the air of bacteria for 24 hours! Breathing in these incredible scents during our meditative deep breathing clears our airway passages and helps bring calm and grounding energy which concludes our night. We make ourselves some hot tea and turmeric golden milk.

Smudging tip: open windows a crack to allow all negative energy to escape and new positive energy to cleanse our space. have a lit candle as this provides a steady source of flame.

Golden Milk recipe: perfect warm treat with anti-inflammatory benefits

  • 1 capsule turmeric powder
  • ½ tsp grated fresh ginger
  • ½ tsp cinnamon
  • ½ tsp local honey
  • crack black pepper
  • ½ cup of coconut milk

https://minimalistbaker.com/5-minute-vegan-golden-milk/